as a father i am living this in stereo, my daughter uses the AI like a librarian, she asks it questions and then argues with it and honestly her essays got better, my son copies whatever it says and calls it homework done, same house same dinner table same wifi, so when the school says "we allow AI" what they are actually allowing is two completely different educations and they cannot tell me which one my kids are getting, until a school can tell the difference between my daughter and my son i think the default has to be pause, not because the tool is evil but because right now the report card cannot see the difference and that scares me more than the tool